Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Life and death for a child to understand...


Life and death for a child to understand~
Death it is a word that is not used as much as the word life. Why is that, is it because death is sad? It can be scary. Thoughts of death leave us with unanswered questions. What's the best way to introduce our children to life and death? We do our best to make sure the children know it's nothing to be afraid of. Death is that you are now physically non existent here but fully existent in an amazing wonderful place full of love, peace, joy and complete understanding. The most amazing feeling you can ever try to imagine. Once you are there in heaven with our Lord God you will never wish to come back. We live our lives preparing for the time we get to move on into heaven. That's really what it's about. Living God's word and teaching it to others. Our children also know that we pray for lost souls that do not follow our Lord and may end up spending eternity in hell with all it's evil.
Little Man told me one day Mom, I'm ready to go to heaven if God wants me. Heaven is going to be great I know it. I was blown away by his statement. He has always had this maturity about him. One of the reasons we call him Little man. At the same time he is sensitive and wears his feelings on his shoulder. You may be wondering where this post came from.
Tonight our Ms. Piggy died of the stomach flu and what we believe to be dehydration. It's been hard for our Little man. The girls have taken it different. Sweet pea is just too young to know. Sunshine girl is very matter of fact. She does have questions and concerns but her heart doesn't melt the same way Little mans does. He has lost his dog, his goat and now his pig within a few months. It seems to be too much for a nine year old boy. You may be thinking our animals need better owners but we love and care for them daily. It's just been one of those things. Watching Little man say goodbye to this lifeless pig and looking at me to say mom Ms. Piggy is not there anymore grows a lump in my throat. I hold him next to me as I run my fingers trough his hair feeling the softness of his young face. I am doing what I can to mend his pain. A mother wants her child to never feel this pain. Thinking this I still know life and death of all creatures is in Gods plan. Times as these prepares us for future losses and pain. Thinking of my Little Man tonight and praying for his heart to mend.

25 comments:

Leslie said...

oh sweet boy...my heart is breaking for him.

Cathy said...

Oh, I feel bad for your sweet, sensitive little man. I guess farm life sort of prepares kids for bigger questions. So glad your son is thinking it through.

Cathy

Hope's Mother said...

I think your son sounds very kind and mature. I hope he feels happier soon!

Farming On Faith said...

I have prayed for your sweet boy this morning. I have been here many times with my children. Your story reminds me of each time. One day death will not be an be an enemy no more~Praise God!
You are a good Momma!
Sending Blessings and Prayers your way~
Carrie

Skoots1moM said...

love your blog
his heart will heal...you're teaching him through your actions... :)

Mom of these kids said...

Oh, I am so sorry for him...I know this must be really hard! I know it is hard for you to watch him go through this too.

Anne Marie said...

such a nice post.......and our kids have learned those life lessons on the farm.....some very beloved animals have passed away unexpectantly.....we all experience those things - but I like a child's viewpoint don't you?

Anonymous said...

Little Man, Gt.Grandma B. is so sorry, and I hope you are feeling
better. Love you so much.

Lisa said...

It is tough to lose a beloved pet. So sorry little man! Praying you get through the grief.

Anonymous said...

J-You are by boy and you always will be. Love you so much. Grandma

Colleen said...

Such a great but painful life lesson! What an awesome son you have, and what a wonderful mom he has :)

FLmom7 said...

Such a tough thing to explain to a child...he is lucky to have such a caring mom.

He & Me + 3 said...

That is so sad. I am sorry for your little man. Loss is never easy. Praying for him.

Farmgirl Cyn said...

Your little guy has some wisdom beyond his years, it seems. We are in this world, but not of it, and he seems to have a grasp on that already. Bless his heart...

Taylor said...

Poor guy! I hope his heart mends soon.

mamamia said...

Poor little guy! It is hard. It is hard to be the mom watching, too.
Thankfully, God watches, too. Hope your little man is feeling happy again, soon!

Maura said...

What a sweet boy you have with such a big heart. I am so so sad to hear about your pig I have been loving her from afar. Sadly these things happen in life no matter how hard we try to prevent them. I hope he bounces back to his joyful self soon.

Anonymous said...

Oh, I hope he feels better and happier soon,

Elle Bee said...

It's such a hard thing to deal with at that age! What a sweet sensitive boy.

Nicole said...

Poor Johnathan

Josh said...

Hi Catherinne Anne and Little Man,
I'm so sorry about Ms. Piggy...
Living on a farm, I can relate to the whole "death" thing. It can be so hard to deal with too.
I feel that I connect with you Little Man, you and I are both the firstborns in our family and it sounds as though we have very similar personalities. I will be praying that your heart will be healed from the hurt you are feeling right now.

God Bless you both,
Josh

Janean said...

awwwww, poor ms piggy. most children learn about this Life's lesson via pets. hope the sadness lifts soon.

Anonymous said...

Thank you all for your kind words. I have told Little Man you are all thinking about him. Catherine

Dagmar said...

Oh my,...heart is aching for your little man. Tell him Ms Piggy will wait for him in Heaven because she was loved so beautiful.

Catherine Anne said...

Thank you for your kind words!